The question you should ask yourself when you hear such is ‘Why did he/her do it?’
Knowing the answer couldn’t turn back the clock and make him/her un-cheat on you, but I did hope it would help give clarity to a situation.
As anyone who’s ever been cheated on knows, learning that your spouse or significant other has strayed outside your relationship is a uniquely painful experience. In the midst of the teary talks and arguments that follow your discovery of the betrayal, you might never hear an actual reason And you might not even see the signs. Here are eight reasons why people cheat
(1)Theyhave a self esteem problem, and they’re seeking validation.
Sex is not the primary reason people cheat,The primary reason is that there’s a deficiency in their life and specifically, in their ego. They feel incomplete.
(2)They want to end things, but sabotage the relationship instead.
(4)They feel neglected by their partner, sexually and/or emotionally.
(5)They truly didn’t think the consequences through.
(6)They craved variety, and acted on it.
(7)They met someone else.
So how do you prevent cheating in a relationship?
The short answer is, you can’t. But according to research, “the best way to avoid being in a relationship with a person who cheats is to look for the warning signs before you get into a relationship with them.